As Halloween quickly approaches I have been contemplating and pondering what exactly I'm going to do with a 3-month old. Trick or Treating, while rewarding for her Father and I, won't mean much to her. What traditions do I want to instill in my little brown-haired sponge? We discussed what we could remember from growing up in two very opposite households. We really are the perfect mix; he's from the North and I'm a Southern Girl, I had a full house and his was small, He likes intimate settings and I'm a party animal. Raising our daughter is going to be a great adventure as we've decided to mix our beliefs, culture, and love instead of fighting or choosing one right way (obviously mine). Following this I will detail what I have found but first I will promise that if we do decide to stay in Florida for another year I am going to have a Halloween party for the babies next year. If I had started this earlier and had saved from my paycheck I would have hosted one for this year. Although I found a few craft ideas and a ton of traditions there were no events for children under 2 and once again I'm disappointed in my beautiful Pasco County.
Haunted History!
I love Ghost Tours and I have been to St. Augustine at least five times. I love the history and small town charm. Nothing compares to standing outside the city gates, with the crisp sea air blowing through the courtyard, imagining hundreds of soldiers inside the gates protecting their city from invading soldiers, pirates,and the sick (who they threw out of the city to prevent the spread of diseases). Then you snap a picture and the walls, the gates, the air around you is filled with orbs. It's mystical, fascinating, sad, and frightening all at the same time. Even non-believers would find awe in the Nation's oldest city with most of it's buildings still standing against the test of time.
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The Husband is from one of those fake States up North as I mentioned earlier. We are most likely moving to Rhode Island within the next year and he assures me that where we will be living is only an hour or so drive from Salem. I really don't feel I need to go into what Salem is like in the fall but let's just say Historically Haunted!!!! I have done research on this subject as well (surprised?) and they have a Fall Festival that people cross the country to attend. Halloween is more for the tourists and people dress in period costumes and walk the eerily decorated streets.
For her sense of history mixed with spooky ghost stories we have it covered no matter who's home state we live! My favorite ghost tour is the walking
tour. I have also read two books on ghost stories from St. Augustine and it makes it a bit more enjoyable when you can recognize the buildings or landmarks from the books. This is the
tour for Salem that I want to go on because adding paranormal investigators into the mix is simply genius!
Boo-tiful Bounty!
I think a very important lesson for children to learn is where our food comes from. I learned that lesson growing up on the farm; butchering the pigs, eating our pet rabbits, and tending the garden. While the lesson doesn't have to be as hands on as mine it is still valuable for children to get a sense that not all food is ordered from a magic box you speak into. While I was pregnant with the Firefly, Husband and I went to a blueberry farm and picked about three pounds of the succulent berries. I loved it! The joy of being together out on a farm and the harmless teasing over who picked the biggest, the bluest, or the most. I decided then that the Firefly needed to be a part of the fun once she was out in the world.This Fall we have already bought one pumpkin, however, I found a
pumpkin patch with the veggies still on the vine. I am so excited to take her up there to pick her own, although her lack of hand-eye coordination may require assistance from the father figure or myself. They have gourds, white pumpkins, Cinderella pumpkins, and the bulbous orange. The site says they have photography opportunities set up throughout the field as well. I am making her a knit pumpkin hat, dressing her in an adorable fall-inspired outfit and we are picking some pumpkins on our way to Gainesville. The only problem with the patch is the terrible puppy won't be able to join us as they've banned pets from the premises. We will have to bring a dog sitter to watch him while we harvest the crops.
Husband remembers picking apples as a child and I love apples as much as I love pumpkins! I found two different apple orchards that coincidentally also have pumpkins. We will most likely live in or around Providence so I picked two farms one North and one South since I have no clue where anything is. The first is
Sweet Berry Farm and it is closer to Newport and she has Jam, Ice Cream, Christmas Trees, and produce for every season. If you planned it right you could go every few months and bring home a bounty of one fruit or another. The second is North and closer to Pawtucket. It's called
Phantom Farms and what I liked about them is they have a Jack-O-Lantern Illumination Festival. You could spend the day harvesting apples, pack a picnic and stay for the Festival. This year the festival is tomorrow so you better hurry.
Picking our own Pumpkin is definitely on the list of new traditions for our family. Picking apples will be a whole lot of fun as Husband loves apple crisp and I'm a huge fan of candy apples!
Spooky Pumpkin, Silly Pumpkin or Strange Pumpkin?
The only thing I do not agree with when it comes to pumpkin carving or decorating is using one of those damn stencils and making some luminary masterpiece that you just traced. Anything else goes with me. Part of the Pumpkin decorating is to inspire creativity. If you aren't a carver and still like having a pumpkin around I found an amazing website that has a ton of easy
no-carve decorating tips. I am quite particular to the melting crayon pumpkin pictured. My kid can't even grip a crayon but we already have a mass quantity of broken, old, and crazy crayons around the house. Why not use them to create an exotic pumpkin full of colors and wonder (too much?). I am excited to attempt this! There were a lot of people I found who put their baby's footprints or handprints on the pumpkins. I guess that's a good idea to have a baby decorate his/her own pumpkin.
For commemorative purposes I like the ones who carved the child's name or initial onto a pumpkin and then placed said child in, on, or near the pumpkin for a photo. Just be very careful with this because not all of the photos that I came across were cute, take the time to make the pumpkin presentable if you are using it as your prop. We are doing a crazy pumpkin, the general jack-o-lantern, and a silly baby one for the Firefly. I haven't decided whether to attempt the name pumpkin or not, however, when choosing the pumpkin we already bought I made sure it was large enough to fit the baby inside it.
Baking from Beyond!
The Husband is an amazing baker, he hates every second of it, but he's amazing. Since he doesn't actually like to bake I will take on this challenge with my mini-assistant sitting in her bumbo on the counter! We are going to make cookies, roast the pumpkin seeds, and possibly some pumpkin muffins or pancakes. The cookies I plan to make are the simple yet traditional sugar cookies cut into pumpkins, ghosts, bats, and other spooks. I found a delicious recipe for the
pumpkin seeds, although you can never go wrong by simply placing the seeds in a ziploc, adding salt and olive oil, shaking until they are well coated and baking on a cookie sheet for 45 minutes at 300 degrees. We also drink Pumpkin Spice Coffee every morning and sometimes during the afternoon (depending on how the day has gone with the Firefly). Husband found a recipe for
Pumpkin Soup that we are extremely anxious to try out this weekend. We are coupling it with sausage to make it a bit more hearty! My Grandmother was always baking cookies and I grew up loving to bake. I hope the Firefly will enjoy this tradition of making some yummy treats during the Holidays as well as enjoying the seasonal harvests.
Costumes Galore!
I love making costumes. Well before the Firefly I began making costumes for themed charity events, weddings, and of course Halloween. I've made everything from a full formal kilt, renaissance dress, punk rock get up, to a Princess Peach costume. It's so much more fun to gather all of the pieces and make something that will be unlike everyone else's costume. I can say I have never ever shown up to anything that required a costume worried that I'd be wearing the same as someone else. I know you aren't all as skilled with a sewing machine or able to knit your own wig but that doesn't have to stop you from pulling some crazy costumes out of your hat. Go to the local thrift store and buy some overalls, a red shirt, and a red hat. Swing into Walmart and grab a plunger and some sticky back felt. Bam! You just made a Mario costume without sewing anything and it looks 100% more realistic than the plastic suit they sell at iParty. I have found several adorable costumes for babies. I was Raggedy Ann and Husband has no clue what he was. Our little Firefly is going to be the adorable Miss Wednesday Addams this year! I've already scoped out everything we need and tonight I am starting her black braided pigtail wig (they don't sell wigs for teeny babies). I can't wait to transform one of her sleeping gowns into a morbid black dress with white cuffs, buttons, and collar! For the rest of you check out
Parenting Magazine's list of easy costumes for little ones.
Crafty!
Since we are a teeny baby this year I looked all over the place for cute crafts to make and use in years to come as decor. I love her tiny little feet so I instantly fell in love with all of the adorable platters, canvas, and scrapbooking ideas that involve her footprints. I mentioned earlier that some people were putting the baby's footprint on pumpkins. I like that idea as well but I'd rather place them on a craft pumpkin that won't rot. Then you could go buy a craft pumpkin each year and her little feet will grow with the different size pumpkins. I may actually do that! I saw that someone bought a large bowl and decorated it for Halloween. On the inside of the bowl they put the baby's hand prints on the bottom. They used the bowl as their treat bowl and I think it's cute because when it's empty it's just her teeny hands like she snatched up all the treats. The other adorable crafts that I came across varied from knit hats, sweet and easy
onesies, neat mummy cups, crocheted shoes, and the list is endless. I wish I had started a few weeks ago because I now have a list of 20 or more crafts that I would like to make for her First Halloween!
For our First Halloween I intend to take my Firefly around to visit with the numerous people who adore her. Show off her costume and pose for some photos and then when we've exhausted our visitations we are going to watch all of the trick-or-treater's downtown. Next year as I said I plan to have a party so everyone has a place to take their little pumpkins. I can promise you that as these holidays come and go I will do everything in my power to ensure they always remain a magical, joyous, and wondrous event for her. I hope she keeps the innocent fun for as long as she lives but I know all to well that it can be snatched from her before she is ready so I will treasure these glorious yet short years where everything is fun and exciting.
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